Hey girl! Quit Trying!!!

Hey gurl! Quit trying to make your man to act the way you want him to. He isn’t wired to act that way (if he actually did, he'd be considered a sissy). My point is a man is wired and configured to act only as men do and not as women want them to. For heavens sake, we are different! Women really need to understand that. If we did, things will be a lot simpler, I believe. So 4 you who think this is all theory, lets get practical. When a man and woman both say 'i have nothing to wear', the man means he has nothing clean while the woman means she has nothing new. Can you see the reasoning difference? Lets continue. When a man goes to work and comes home late, he loves his family so much and he wants to do everything to make sure his family is comfortable. For the woman, he doesn’t love her that’s why he keeps late nights. Women are relational while men are goal oriented. Women’s ego are built on their various kinds of relationships that’s why in most break ups or failed relationships, the woman is at the receiving end. But for the men, everything is seen as a goal or an achievement. When they don’t reach a target, their ego is bruised. Now that goal might be making a relationship work or getting work done. A guy and a gal watch a match together. The guy’s team loses and he is sad. The girl seeing him sad is asking ‘darling, did I offend you?’ A guy wakes up from his bed and doesn’t see reason why he should lay it since he would soon be back on the same bed, the woman feels he is too untidy and unkempt. A closed tap is trickling. The woman says its spoilt and should be fixed, the man says it needs to be closed properly. A woman wants love, a man wants respect. If a man don’t give a woman love, she wont give him respect and if a woman don’t give a man respect, he wont give her love! It’s a never-ending cycle. These are just few examples of the reasoning difference between men and woman. Trust me, the list is endless! This is not to permit some inexcusable acts from men but there are just some things that can’t change. You can’t use an iron to wash or a hammer to cook. That’s not what they were made for. #iamjustsaying